Leisure | The Skinny Confidential A lifestyle blog, podcast, and brand by Lauryn Evarts Bosstick. For the girl who wants to be the best version of herself, on her own terms. Wed, 17 Apr 2024 09:40:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 St. Barths Lookbook and Skincare Essentials https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/st-barths-lookbook-and-skincare-essentials/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/st-barths-lookbook-and-skincare-essentials/#respond Thu, 11 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=96750 You might have seen on Instagram that we recently went to St. Barths for Michael’s birthday AGAIN. Lucky guy. It

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St. Barths Lookbook and Skincare Essentials

You might have seen on Instagram that we recently went to St. Barths for Michael’s birthday AGAIN. Lucky guy. It was an incredible experience and we had the best time. Last year we stayed on yacht but this year we stayed at Villa Neo with all our best friends. It was so fun. We put together a tennis tournament, did Pilates with Bryony, and hung out by the pool.

Let me tell you that I wore The Skinny Confidential NEW Caffeinated Sunscreen the whole time and it’s so perfect for every day. I don’t think I wore foundation over it once actually. It has the best tint and the caffeine lifts, tightens and firms your skin. It was warm in St. Barths so having a mineral sunscreen to protect your skin that’s also non-greasy and lightweight is such a dream. I hope you all love it.

Anyway, been getting tons of DM’s on some looks and you can find it all here, but as always, want things to be easy and laid out for you, so here it is.

St Barths Lookbook and Skincare Essentials

OTHER CLOTHES I BROUGHT:

+ the red tee and skirt pictured above.

+ Olivia Von Halle pajamas

+ Eterne dress that’s sold out, but all their dresses look fab, like this one.

+ Celine jacket that’s sold out, similar here.

+ Spanx red top and skirt set.

+ Caitlin Jaymes bikini bags to keep all my swimsuits organized.

MORE BEAUTY:

Beautyblender

Ice roller

Mouth tape

Agent Natuer body serum

Body sculptor

Refy brow gel

Kosas concealer

Henry Rose Windows Down fragrance

Lux Unfiltered tanning drops

It Cosmetics CC cream

depuffing face oil

Driving gloves

Skinceuticals Discoloration Defense

Skinceuticals CE Ferulic

Dr. Dennis Gross Vitamin C

Skinceuticals Hydrating B5 Gel

Gisou lip oil

Clean Skin Club towels

Mason Pearson brush

Wella hair repair

cuticle oil

Woo Vibez

 St Barths beach

♡ OTHER ITEMS:

cranberry electrolytes

Athletic Greens travel packs

mango Amino Acid travel packs

Cymbiotika packets

AND most importantly, always good books on a Kindle. Check out all my favorite books here. And if you’re want to know what I packed last year you can find it all here.

What are you buying for spring and summer? Let me know below.

x, lauryn

+ check out these must-have items if you’re traveling with a baby.

++ stalk my latest fashion tips here.

SHOP THE LOOKS:

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How To Throw A Great Birthday Party For Adults https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/how-to-throw-a-great-birthday-party-for-adults/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/how-to-throw-a-great-birthday-party-for-adults/#respond Thu, 04 Apr 2024 14:08:00 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=99522 One thing we don’t do enough of as adults: celebrate our birthdays.  Think about it. Our birthdays are a huge

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One thing we don’t do enough of as adults: celebrate our birthdays. 

Think about it. Our birthdays are a huge accomplishment every year. They’re a great time to reflect on the previous year and set intentions for the year to come. 

And between surviving the year and the work we’re doing to set out for a great new year, we deserve a celebration. That’s why we’re declaring that adult birthday parties should make a big comeback.

Plus, birthday parties are one of the rare opportunities we get to have all of our loved ones in one place. And it’s a day that’s all about YOU. What could be better? 

But we’ll admit, planning a birthday party can be stressful. There’s a lot to consider. Just ask Lauryn about Zaza’s Pineapple Soiree and Eloise Birthday. It takes major work, even when you have help.

Don’t sweat it though, we have you covered with both practical and creative tips for throwing the BEST adult birthday party you’ve ever had. Plus, we’ve got some adult birthday party ideas for themes that are sure to kick off a good time.

How To Throw A Great Birthday Party For Adults

Tip #1: Choose a date.

The first step in any party planning venture is to pick a date. For a birthday party, you’ll want to decide whether or not to have it on your actual birthday. Of course, you’ll also want to consider your guests’ other engagements like, having a birthday party on a Tuesday may not be the move, even if it’s your actual birthday. So choose that date and mark it down on all your calendars/planners.

HOT TIP: choose a date between 2 weeks and 1 month ahead of time to give your party goers plenty of time to plan.

Tip #2: Set a budget.

To know what you want to do, you’ve gotta know what you want to spend to celebrate your birthday. Are you going all out for your bad-ass birthday bash, or keeping it more casual? Your budget may make a difference here.

Tip #3: Decide on a theme.

Is the theme the most important part of your birthday party planning? Maybe not, but it’s definitely up there. Your theme determines the look and the vibe of your party and if you’re a diva like we are, it’s probably also going to determine your outfit. 

Pick a theme that matches how you want to feel and how you want your guests to feel at the party. For theme party ideas, keep scrolling–we’ve got some down below.

Tip #4: Pick your venue.

There are some things you’ll want to consider before you pick your venue: your budget (of course), your theme, how many guests you’ll be inviting, and how long you want your party to be. 

Obviously, you want your venue to match your theme, but you also want it to be comfortable and fun for your guests for as long as you’ll be there. Some solid venues include bars, Airbnbs, VRBOs, hotel party rooms, or your own house.

How To Throw A Great Birthday Party For Adults

Tip #5: Create your guest list.

Now it’s time to consider the who’s who of your friends and family: your guest list. First and foremost, you want to ensure that your guest list reflects the atmosphere you want for your party. If you’re keeping it small, you may only want to invite your closest friends. However, if you’re throwing a big bash, grandma might not be on the invite list. Moreover, these little details can make a significant difference in the execution of your party.

Tip #6: Set your itinerary.

Now that you’ve got your guest list, you’ve got to have an itinerary that matches the vibe of your party and your guests. Even if your party is more of an open-house-style get-together, you’re going to want to have a plan for things like when the food and drink will be served, when any planned activities might happen (like singing Happy Birthday), and when the party will end. But either way, that’s something you’re going to want to have a plan for. 

Tip #7: Send out your invitations.

The timing of this tip is CRUCIAL. You want to send out invitations with enough time that people can plan for your party, without feeling like it’s a last-minute assignment. If you want to get super fun with it, we highly recommend using Bliss & Bone. They do evites as well as paper invitations, know how much details matter and always deliver the most high-quality, exciting invitations.

Tip #8: Determine party favors.

Remember when we were kids and we ALWAYS left birthday parties with a goodie bag? Party favors are by no means a must-have, but they do have a nice touch to them. Some of Lauryn’s favorite party favors are Taja candles, Beekeeper’s Naturals and custom candy by Lana Nicole,

HOT TIP: make your party even more memorable by tying your party favors to your theme.

candles for adult party
party favors for adult party

Tip #9: Decorate at many heights.

We learned this tip from Lauryn’s friend Faith, who threw a killer 30th birthday bash at a VRBO in Beverly Hills. Where a lot of people may simply have a “Happy Birthday” banner or have a table where the presents go, you want to create an amazing visual effect at every level from the ceiling to the floor. 

How do you do this? We recommend lots and lots of balloons. They are super affordable and bring all the birthday vibes to the environment, whether you’ve got helium balloons placed strategically, a balloon arch for photos, or balloons scattered throughout the party on the floor, all 3 are good options.

HOT TIP: Splurge for the balloon weights and cut the strings at different lengths so it will look like a sea of balloons.

Tip #10: Photos, photos, photos.

Did you really have a bangin’ birthday bash if you didn’t get any photos of it? Some would say no. However, of course, you can have an amazing party without the perfect pics to post afterward. But chances are, you’re going to want to remember this party. Therefore, make it easy on your guests by getting a polaroid or two with lots of film. Additionally, set up a table with a guest book and fun markers so your guest can write in it. This way, guests can take a picture, tape it into the book, and write out a memory. And the perfect keepsake for you.

Or, you can also go the professional route and hire a photographer to staff a photo booth. It’s up to you, babes! Either way, the results will be picture-perfect.

Birthday Party Themes For Adults

10 Birthday Party Themes For Adults

Dinner Party

A dinner party is always a classy, yet simple option. Make food ahead of time, or cater food in. Then, sit down with your besties and enjoy.

Game Night

Everyone loves a party with an activity. It gives your more shy guests something to focus on until they can come out of their shell. Additionally, it’s just fun. You can pick your favorite games and get them prepped to play. From classic board games to interactive group activities, there’s something for everyone. Moreover, if you’re having a big party, use the games as centerpieces on different tables. It’s an easy icebreaker and a damn good time. Furthermore, you can even organize a tournament or set up stations with different games for variety. The possibilities are endless, and it’s a fantastic way to ensure everyone has a blast at your party.

Costume Party

While many adults still have a love for dressing up, we just don’t get to indulge in it as much anymore. However, you can change that with a costume party. Whether you keep it general for Halloween-like vibes or get specific for something more targeted, the choice is yours. Personally, we adore a masquerade theme. Bring on the ball gowns.

Cocktail Party

Have a birthday happy hour. Hire a bartender to serve up your favorite cocktails. Then, simply host the party.

PS: Want to elevate your party even more? Check out these tips on making smoked cocktails that are perfect for parties.

Murder Mystery Party

If you loved Knives Out, then this may be the party for you. Murder mystery parties involve a game of whodunnit, and they can be tons of fun. Pit your friends against each other in a crime-solving bash that’ll go down in the history books. Who’s the killer? It’s got to be one of you…There are companies you can hire to set this all up for you.

Spa Day Party

Want to keep your party chill and relaxed while also feeling bougie? A spa day party is the move. Play your favorite music, get out your TSC-brand products, and relax.

Here are some of our spa day favorites:

+ Ice roller for depuffing and debloating puffy skin

+ Face massager to relieve muscle tension + contour your face

+ Depuffing oil to restore skin’s natural moisture barrier

Wine and Cheese Party

It doesn’t get classier than this. Pop open a few bottles of wine and bring out the charcuterie. We love this set from Williams Sonoma.

Crafting Party

This is another great option for having an activity-based party: crafting. Everyone loves getting creative, and your crafting projects can double as party favors.

What kind of crafts should you plan? It’s totally up to you. If you have a relatively crafty crew, each guest can bring their own works-in-progress to work on together. If you want something you can do together, try painting canvases or making jewelry.

Birthday Brunch Party

Everyone, and we mean everyone, loves a birthday brunch. (Especially a boozy one.) Consider making a reservation at your favorite brunch spot, or have brunch catered in at your venue of choice.

Pool Party

This one’s probably only an option if, like Lauryn, you’re lucky enough to have a late spring/summer birthday. But it’s SUCH a good option. After all, it’s impossible to have a bad time at a pool party. Just make sure you Get the Fuck Out of the Sun with some sunscreen and a solid sun hat.

What kind of birthday party fun are you planning this year?

Do you have any party planning tips we missed? Let us know below.

Need help planning your other parties? We’ve got great tips for planning a bachelorette party or a kid’s birthday party.

x, The Skinny Confidential team

+ How to throw a cocktail party at home.

++ Tips for throwing a sip and see.

PARTY SUPPLIES:

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5 Reasons You Should Get to Know Your Human Design Chart https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/5-reasons-you-should-get-to-know-your-human-design-chart/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/5-reasons-you-should-get-to-know-your-human-design-chart/#respond Sun, 03 Dec 2023 21:07:00 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=93962 HUMAN DESIGN !! Ever heard of it? It’s such an interesting topic & something that some people swear by. It

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Human Design Chart

HUMAN DESIGN !!

Ever heard of it?

It’s such an interesting topic & something that some people swear by. It kind of tells you who you are, how you deal with things, your energy type, what your unique gifts & weaker traits are, etc. Jenna totally gets into it in a minute. Knowing aspects of your chart can help you make big desicions, understand gut responses, and tell you if you’re a reflector, projector, generator, or manifestor.

If you haven’t met Jenna Zoe, let us introduce you. She is a world-leading expert in Human Design, a new system of self-discovery helping reconnect people to who they came to be.

In fact, Jenna’s podcast episode is a must-listen.  She discusses how we can figure out what our unique human design is & then use the information to unlock our abilities.

Lucky us, because she’s also on the blog to tell us about 5 reasons we should get to know our human design chart.

Without further ado, let’s welcome Jenna to the blog.

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Being your real self is all the rage – but it’s not always easy to know what your real self actually looks like. And if you’re different from everyone else, then looking to others for the answer can pull you even further off of your path.

Enter Human Design; it is a part-science, part-spiritual system that literally MAPS your real self to you, with instructions of how to become it. Based on your birth date, time and place, it calculates the energy you were inherently born to be (find yours at myhumandesign.com). Being your highest, most powerful self then, is returning to your natural essence, rather than trying to become who you were told you had to be. 

Human Design has been called astrology on steroids and for very good reason. 

5 Reasons You Should Get to Know Your Human Design Chart:

♡  It tells you how to get into your flow

The basic principle of human design is that when you’re being who you came here to be, your dreams come to you with ease and flow. 

Your chart will tell you how to use your time and energy properly. So that you don’t have to spend your life pushing and forcing, only to come up against resistance and blocks. When you work with your natural energy rather than against it, things will unfold with a lot less effort. 

♡ It tells you what your biggest gifts are 

Everyone is gifted, but most likely you don’t even know what yours are. Why? Because they come so easy to you that you assume everyone else can do them too.

Gifts aren’t just being good at coding or being a great singer – sometimes it’s a skill for bringing people together. And society never helped you think that could come in handy to grow a party-planning empire, for example. 

♡ It tells you how to structure your day

Morning routines help some people thrive and restricts others. Having everything planned out makes some people feel freer than just ‘going with the flow.’ These are all for good reason: alignment looks different for all of us. 

♡ It shows you your perfect diet and lifestyle

There is no right or wrong diet – only the one that is aligned for you. And when you eat, sleep and move the way you’re designed to, it’s like putting the right gas in your car – you free up SO much energy to think, to create, to live out your dreams.

Imagine if you’re designed to have small consistent meals every day but you’re trying to intermittent fast. It’s like being a giraffe when you’re actually a bird. You just end up being a really bad giraffe when you could be an excellent bird. 

♡ It helps you discern what your intuition sounds like

Each person’s intuition lives in a different part of their body – for some it’s in their gut, for others it’s in their heart, their emotions, their mind, etc. When you know what yours looks like, it becomes impossible to ignore – so making decisions becomes so easy and clear. We’re not designed to spend hours lamenting over what to do. It’s meant to be easy. 

If you want to learn all about your design and the designs of your loved ones, download the ‘My Human Design’ app, available on the app store and google play. For videos, trainings and to book sessions, visit www.myhumandesign.com and learn about your chart daily on Instagram @my.humandesign

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Be sure to listen to Jenna’s podcast for more on your human design chart. You guys are gonna love it. Here’s another blog post on human design, too.

And if you want some more, Jenna just launched her own podcast called My Human Design. Listen on Apple or Spotify. Happy listening.

x, The Skinny Confidential team.

+ Dr. Peter Attia’s tips for optimal health here.

++ stalk Lauryn’s specific routines and hacks here.

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To Drink Like Kris Jenner You Need These Bougie Cocktail Tumblers https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/to-drink-like-kris-jenner-you-need-these-bougie-cocktail-tumblers/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/to-drink-like-kris-jenner-you-need-these-bougie-cocktail-tumblers/#comments Fri, 10 Nov 2023 18:40:37 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=98421 If you trust us on one thing, trust us on this: you need these glasses. They’re timeless, classic, high-quality, luxurious

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Bougie Cocktail Tumblers

If you trust us on one thing, trust us on this: you need these glasses.

They’re timeless, classic, high-quality, luxurious and can turn lunchtime with your kids into happy hour at the King Cole Bar (as you can see from Lauryn’s picture, LOL).

If you’re a fan of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, or even if you just keep up with momager Kris Jenner, you may recognize these Baccarat Old Fashioned Tumblers. They’re her #1 vessel for all her cocktails, her favorite being vodka soda with lime and a Belvedere martini with olives. And we’re into both.

And when we say these glasses are timeless, we mean timeless. Check out how long Kris has been using them:

Kris Jenner baccarat glasses

Bougie Cocktail Tumblers

According to Lauryn, they really elevate your cocktail hour, or even your morning Athletic Greens and electrolytes. Every ritual, routine, or few minutes you take for yourself deserves A MOMENT. And Baccarat really takes it to the next level. We want to love everything around us and impeccable, crystal glassware in your home is something that will turn heads. (Plus, we got the inside scoop that Baccarat glassware is kept on tons of yachts for the most high class experience.)

Let’s normalize everyday luxury with our glassware, right? There’s no need to save it for special occasions or guests. Lauryn loves the Old Fashioned tumblers, but you can get any type of glass really:

+ shot glasses

+ martini glasses

+ high ball

+ everyday collection

+ wine glasses

+ Old Fashioned tumblers (Lauryn and Kris Jenner’s fave)

And while we’re here, with cocktails on our minds, we wanted to share Lauryn’s favorite cocktail lately, SEXED UP RANCH WATER. It’s just ice, 1.5 inch of blanco tequila, Pellegrino, an inch of lime juice and a lemon wedge. In the Baccarat tumbler, of course.

Now, if you’re looking for a gift to impress, one to really make an impact, these are the perfect thing. You can buy most of them in sets of 2, 4 or 6, and they really make a statement. Perfect for the holidays, anniversaries, housewarming or weddings. You really cannot go wrong with this gift.

Hope you loved this little tip to elevate all your beverages. Seriously, you’re going to feel so regal drinking out of these. Do you own any Baccarat glasses? How long have you had them? Let us know below.

As Kris Jenner says: Everything tastes better in a Baccarat.

x, The Skinny Confidential team

+ check out what we learned from Stephanie Shepherd.

++ if you need inspo for a winter party, stalk this post.

GET BOUGIE:

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My Favorite Pajama Brands https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/my-favorite-pajama-brands/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/my-favorite-pajama-brands/#respond Mon, 16 Oct 2023 20:05:44 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=98049 Obsessed with pajamas. Who else? I love a good quality set and major bonus points if it’s a button up.

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My Favorite Pajama Brands

Obsessed with pajamas. Who else? I love a good quality set and major bonus points if it’s a button up. You know that look? It’s chic, classic and comfy, which is why pajama style tops were all the rage not too long ago (and still).

Anyway, wanted to break down my favorite pajama brands of the moment. Personally, I like loose fitting pajamas because it helps with lymphatic drainage when you sleep. No one needs to be all sucked in and constricted when your body is meant to rest and rejuvenate.

My Favorite Pajama Brands:

Brûlé (use code SKINNY)

Kenzie Burke’s brand Brûlé has incredible loungewear that doubles as sleepwear. Think men’s boxer style shorts and cute boxy tees.

Skims

Skims really has it all. Lounge, pajamas, workout, casual, bras and undies. The Skims bras really work for me and I love their bodysuits too.

Elwood

Just the best basics and loungewear if you ask me.

La Perla

If you want to get super bougie, or want to ask for something high end, these look amazing. Get the matching shorts too?

The Bar (I have this top & shorts)

The pink gingham set is one of my favorites. I wear it all the time, plus it’s cute for filming my morning routines for you.

Lauryn Favorite Pajama Brands

Eberjey

Not the biggest fan of Eberjey modal sets, but LOVE these indigo and white silk ones.

Big sale on Silky Silk right now! Highly recommend these ones.

Lunya

Another great washable silk brand. You can choose from sets, night dresses and robes.

Lila Zizi

Pricey, chic, worth it if you ask me. So many fun designs but they’re still mature – and I mean that in the best way. I feel like Dorit has 20 pairs.

PJ Salvage

Shopbop has a huge selection of PJ Salvage pajama sets. Some are chic, some are kitschy, some are cute. No matter what style you go for these pajamas are comfortable and stand the test of time.

As you can see I tend to go for washable silk because it just feels so luxurious on the skin. Tell me what PJ brands you’re loving below. Always looking to add to my collection. You can never have to many. LOL.

Stalk everything here.

x, Lauryn

+ check out my favorite Halloween decor. 

++ find out why you need these dehumidifier bags for your closet.

STALK THE BEST PJS:

Lauryn Pajamas

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The Hack That Will Make Your Candles Last Way Longer https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/hack-will-make-candles-last-way-longer/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/hack-will-make-candles-last-way-longer/#comments Fri, 25 Aug 2023 16:00:36 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=72174 Let me introduce you to something that every person who loves a vibe needs. A candle wick trimmer. This is

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How to make your candles last longer

Let me introduce you to something that every person who loves a vibe needs. A candle wick trimmer. This is so efficient & not only something to trim your candle wicks with, but it also looks so chic in your house. Use it as decor on your candle plates or on your mantle if you have one. I have a gold one sitting in front of my candles & I absolutely love it.

Highs & lows when it comes to decor is a must for me, especially when it comes to candles. Different heights & dimensions makes any room look good (my wedding was all about different candle heights & dimensions).

So in my house I have all my different sized candles on a white marble slab & then my candle wick trimmer laying by the candles. It looks really nice & very aesthetically pleasing. A natural bamboo candle plate is fun too.

How to Make Your Candles Last Longer

WHY YOU SHOULD TRIM YOUR CANDLES

♡ you’ll get a clean burn, meaning no smoke.

♡ the glass holders won’t get black soot at the top.

♡ your candles will last longer.

Sidenote: It’s important to trim those longer wicks before you light a candle when the wax is at room temperature, not after you blow out the flame when it’s burning hot.

You want the wick to be 1/8 of an inch at all times. You know when you burn a candle & the wick gets that big black bulb that creates a smokey flame? Well you want to cut that off.

how to trim candles

The best thing about this little tool is for sure to extend the life of your candle. And it’s especially nice if you like to buy higher end candles. This way they won’t go to waste.

Why can’t you just use normal scissors? Because a candle wick trimmer is angled perfectly for trimming a wick. It’ll keep your candle looking so chic & beautiful without getting all smokey.

My grandma is the one who first introduced me to a candle wick trimmer. She always had one on hand & was very specific about trimming her candle wicks.

This is a quality tool that everyone in the universe needs. It’s a very cute housewarming gift that you could totally give with some Palo Santo & a nice candle, you can’t go wrong. If you’re a fan of cathedral candles or pillar candles, they can be difficult because they’re so tall & skinny so this is ideal for those.

A candle wick trimmer is just one of those things you never knew you needed until you have one. You’ll become hooked. The angle of it is perfect, whereas a normal pair of scissors are too straight.

5 WAYS TO PRESERVE YOUR CANDLES

♡ trim the wick every time

♡ keep the flame away from moving air (like an open window)

♡ let the melted wax go all the way across the top layer (to avoid uneven burning)

♡ use table salt to slow down the wax melting. An alternative is to put your candle in the freezer

♡ be sure to have a pool of wax on top of the candle before you extinguish the flame

& while we’re on the subject of candles, let’s talk about my favorite ones.

♡ Cire Trudon

When I went to Glossier in NYC, there was this smell throughout the entire building. I NEEDED to know what the smell was- it was sooooo good. I tracked down the girl at the front desk & she said it’s this special candle that everyone loves. Everyone asks what the smell is when they walk in. It was this Cire Trudon candle, almost burned down to its last little drop.

It’s described as a mint tea, gingery, peppery scent but seriously… it’s basil.

It’s a little expensive but makes a great gift. The scent is so beautiful- not too strong, not too sweet. It’s the most perfect smell and I swear everyone will like.

I highly recommend wrapping this up in a super cute way & giving it with a mini bottle of pink champagne. I think it’s such a chic gift.

How to Make Your Candles Last Longer

♡ natural beeswax

Recently been hearing a lot about unscented beeswax candles. These are natural, non-toxic and actually eliminated odors from the air. I need a little more time with mine, but I’m so into this idea.

♡ Taja Collection

I’ve talked about these ones before, & how I like to get them personalized. The ones we had done for my sister-in-law’s baby shower were so cute. This is one of my favorite candle brands because of their customization. They’re out of control with how gnarly they customize. If you’re looking for a brand that really takes it to the next level, then this is the brand for you. I cannot recommend them enough when it comes to candle customization. They even did the party favors for Zaza’s pineapple soirée birthday. Their candle care set is so chic.

As I said, any of these scented candles with a candle wick trimmer & some Palo Santo would make a great housewarming gift. Be sure to get these things for yourself too- & if you wanna get extra like me, you can even get a candle snuffer too ( another gift from my grandma & something we’ll have to talk about in another post ).

Candle tools are kind of a fun thing that could be passed on to your daughter. I feel like it’s such a vintage thing that everyone needs.

Throw that orange pair of scissors away & grab your candle wick trimmer. You’re basically Suzy Fucking Homemaker. Would love to know some random accessory you have in your house that you didn’t know you needed until you got it.

Lots of love,

lauryn

+ the best way to make your bathroom smell good.

++ check out the best fake plants, recommended by you.

SHOP THE POST

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Lake Como Travel Guide https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/lake-como-travel-guide/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/lake-como-travel-guide/#respond Wed, 23 Aug 2023 16:29:00 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=97487 Leave it to Michael Bosstick (and most likely his assistant Katie) if you want the most iconic, concise travel guide

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Lake Como Travel Guide

Leave it to Michael Bosstick (and most likely his assistant Katie) if you want the most iconic, concise travel guide for Italy – specifically Lake Como.

Lauryn recently posted the hot spots on her Instagram, but let’s get it all laid out here shall we?

Grab your best dinner jacket, bougie bag and buckle up…because you just might catch a glimpse of the Clooney’s at these little gems.

LAKE COMO TRAVEL GUIDE:

food & drinks:

Veranda at Villa d’Este

Order a skinny margarita and the spicy chili squid spaghetti. The Dover sole is also to die for. The only move for dessert is the ice cream that comes in a carved out lemon.

The Canova Bar

The prettiest setting on the lake and you must order the Affogado al Caffe. There’s also an olive and salty nut situation too. So be sure to ask for that.

The Grill

This bread is WORTH it so go for it. Warm and buttery. Yum. Also, this place has an incredible view.

Una Finestra Sul Lago

The most amazing pizza, maybe the best ever. Staff is so nice and charismatic.

La Terrazza

Order the Brunello or the lemony, dry white wine with cacio e pepe topped with caviar. The saffron and gold leaf risotto is so good too.

Il Crotto Dei Platani

Get a glass of champagne the moment you sit down to enhance your entire experience.

La Tirlindana

Kinda of a hole in the wall but incredible. Ordering the octopus and lemon ravioli is the only way to go here.

Il Giardino in Cernobbio

The most adorable, chic little courtyard restaurant in a hotel.

La Colombette

Mick Jagger’s favorite. In fact, it’s family owned and the truffle pasta and lamb chops are BEYOND.

Lake Como Travel Guide
What to wear in Lake Como
plate of pasta
Lauryn tennis outfit

PLAY & TO-DO:

♡ Tennis lessons at Villa d’Este, where Michael and Lauryn stayed. Doesn’t seem to be going too well for Michael.

♡ Boat tour to Il Crotto Dei Platani for lunch

♡ Sundeck bar of the hotel for swimming, pizza and à la piscine de Champagne.

Harry’s Bar for the best Bellinis

♡ Lauryn also got a stunning brown belt and yellow blouse at the cutest boutique at Villa d’Este.

♡ Enjoy the best croissant ever filled with warm apricot and a whole milk cappuccino at Pasticceria Poletti. (A fab rec from Claire Grieve.)

*For hotels Lauryn and Michael recommend Villa d’Este and Grand Tremezzo.

Did you go to Italy or Lake Como this summer or have you been before? Let us know your favorite places to go, things to do, and where to eat in the comments below so we can all use this as a resource.

Be sure to check out Lauryn’s Italian packing list too. So many fun pieces that can be mixed and matched.

x, The Skinny Confidential team

+ stalk this list for all of Michael’s summer trip essentials.

++ check out Lauryn’s tips for traveling with a baby.

CIAO:

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Italy Packing List: Stalk Lauryn’s Suitcase https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/italy-packing-list-stalk-lauryns-suitcase/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/italy-packing-list-stalk-lauryns-suitcase/#comments Sat, 12 Aug 2023 16:00:14 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=97438 Lauryn is on her way to Italy and as always, she wants to take you along for the ride. We’ve

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Italy Packing List

Lauryn is on her way to Italy and as always, she wants to take you along for the ride. We’ve put together her ENTIRE packing list for you, so you can see her looks all laid out.

This is literally her suitcase, so rest assured, we included everything for you.  Stalk it all below or head to her LTK page to easily shop. Even more, we’ve done a little HIGH / LOW situation for you. So if you’re into the look, but not into the investment, WE GOT YOU.

Let’s get into it.

Italy Packing List: Stalk Lauryn’s Suitcase

Italy Packing List

+ Wolford Jamaica Scoop-Neck Top
+ The Frankie Shop Oversized Yellow Button Up
+ Hermes Roulis Green Leather Crossbody Bag
+ The Row Ryon Maxi Skirt
+ Giuseppe Zanotti Green Heels
+ Baltic The Attic Blue Clutch
+ A.L.C Red Cleo Knit Top
+ Skims Blue Cotton T-Shirt
+ The Frankie Shop Oversized Green Button Up
+ Prada Re-Nylon Red Elastic Shorts
+ Prada Jacquard Logo Slides
+ Prada White Cropped T-Shirt
+ Prada Sunglasses
+ The Attico Blue Rem Sandals

Summer travel outfits

+ MyTheresa Prada Cartigan
+ Bottega Veneta Green T-Shirt
+ Matteau Relaxed Red Button Up
+ Hunza G Blue Square Neck One Piece
+ Hunza G Green Square Neck One Piece
+ Hunza G Red Square Neck One Piece
+ Tony Bianco Marcel Mule
+ Prada Logo-Print Button Up
+ The Row Platform Flip Flops
+ Matthew Bruch Trousers
+ The Row Bufus Pleated Pants
+ The Row Owen Runner Sneakers

Italy packing on a budget

We hope you loved this post and found easy & streamlined. Again, if you want to look at everything in one place, head over here. And you know Lauryn always remembers The Skinny Confidential ice roller, PINK BALLS, Dr. DG LED lip mask, Caitlyn James bikini bags and her Kindle.

Do you have any vacations planned for the last days of summer? What are you packing? Let us know below.

x, The Skinny Confidential team.

+ for more summer look inspo, stalk this post.

++ check out these affordable fashion items everyone should own.

MAMBO ITALIANO:

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France Outfits: What I Wore & Fun Ideas For Summer https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/france-outfits-what-i-wore-fun-ideas-for-summer/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/france-outfits-what-i-wore-fun-ideas-for-summer/#respond Tue, 27 Jun 2023 20:21:47 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=97171 Michael and I just got home from Cannes, France and it was such a fun trip, but my god was

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France Outfits: What I Wore & Fun Ideas For Summer

Michael and I just got home from Cannes, France and it was such a fun trip, but my god was I happy to be home & see my kids. 3 days is good, 7 is too long (for me). There was some work, some play, and it was a really fun trip filled with lots of Campari sodas and la piscine de champagne.

For this trip, I packed some high end staples that I really think I’ll have forever, or at least a very long time. I was wanting a more elevated, classic look, opposed to trendy this year. Some of the items are totally an investment, but like I said I’m trying to go for more quality over quantity when it comes to my closet lately.

Let’s get right into my packing list, k.

France Outfits: What I Wore & Fun Ideas For Summer

France Outfits: What I Wore & Fun Ideas For Summer:

+ black maxi slip dress

+ black maxi skirt

+ vintage tank

+ terrycloth miniskirt

+ v neck cardigan

+ linen shirt and skirt set

+ cream blazer

+ silk wrap skirt

+ off shoulder long sleeve top

+ nautical cardigan

+ midi cocktail dress

+ straight legged jeans

+ red mini dress

+ maxi tank dress

+ shorts & jacket set

+ black nylons

+ suede sneakers (check here for more sizes too)

+ black leather pumps

+ platform sandals

+ white platform flip flops

+ wedged strappy sandals

+ black sling back heels

+ APL white sneakers

+ black oval sunglasses

+ clear cateye sunglasses

Lauryn France outfit

You can stalk everything in my LTK store. And duh, you know I brought my latest travel essentials: Mason Pearson white brush, REFY brow gel, Tarte concealer & HOT MESS Ice Roller.

What’s another timeless item I need this summer? Let me know below.

x, Lauryn

+ stalk my pastel looks from France last year. 

++ for more summer outfit inspo, check out my looks from St. Barths. 

GET FRANCE LOOKS:

beauty tools on bathroom sink

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Memorial Day Essentials For The Best Long Weekend Ever https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/memorial-day-essentials/ https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/memorial-day-essentials/#comments Wed, 17 May 2023 19:48:02 +0000 https://www.theskinnyconfidential.com/?p=96877 We know Memorial Day is over a week away but we just want you to be all set up and

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Pool Memorial Day Essentials

We know Memorial Day is over a week away but we just want you to be all set up and the most prepared you can be.

Whether you’re off for a long weekend away, hitting up a BBQ with friends and family or staying poolside we wanted to give you all a roundup of our Memorial Day Necessities.

In this post we’re going to go over our favorite cocktails and mocktails, recipes that are perfect for a crowd, how to stay safe in the sun and beat the heat. Let’s get into it.

Memorial Day Essentials:

♡ Mocktails

+ raspberry pear spritzer

+ kombucha

+ Ollipop or Poppi (pour over ice with a suitable garnish and a fun straw for a vibe)

+ iced SporTEAwith a lemon wedge (more on why Lauryn loves it here)

+ Topo Chico with fresh squeezed lemon, lime or grapefruit juice

♡ Cocktails

+ skinny marg, with or without a jalepeño, half rim of Tajin

+ Spritz Society sparkling wine – perfect to take to a party (listen to the founder on The Skinny Confidential HIM & HER Show)

+ Dry Farm Wines (but only if you DON’T WANT A HANGOVER)

+ if you feel like showing off, invite some friends over and impress them with this cocktail smoking cloche

+ la piscine de Champagne, aka a huge wine glass with Champagne, but the trick is to keep adding ice so you stay hydrated. It’s THE drink in the South of France

Cocktail Memorial Day Essentials
wine glasses
strawberry sheet cake
watermelon jerky

♡ Bites

+ peach habanero salsa with Siete chips

+ homemade sourdough bread bowl filled with spinach and artichoke dip

+ watermelon jerky

+ cauliflower thins pizzas

+ super cute strawberry sheet cake

♡ Sun Safe Style

+ long sleeved swim suit

+ Eric Javitz visor (an investment but so worth it)

+ BOUGIE driving gloves

+ big ass sunglasses (Lauryn just got these, but here’s a dupe and her other ride or die sunnies)

+ SPF !! We love Elta MD, Glowscreen and Coola, but check out our other recs here

Memorial Day Essentials For The Best Long Weekend Ever
Lauryn swimwear selfie

♡ Other fun things

+ cool float if you’re poolside or beaching it

+ chic beach towel

+ HOT MESS ice roller (hot tip: keep it an ice bucket beside you)

+ cooler bag

+ Evian facial spray (your friends will beg you for a little misty mist)

We hope this post gives you some fun ideas for your Memorial Day weekend. And if you’re in need of some outfit inspo, stalk Lauryn’s recent St. Barths looks here. Let us know if there are any new recipes you’re trying, we’d love to get some more ideas.

x, The Skinny Confidential team

+ check out the benefits of milk ice cubes for your face.

++ how to go from blonde to brunette.

MEMORIAL DAY MUST-HAVES:

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